Today let’s dwell again on my favourite subject. Why do guys always thinks that he has the sex appeal of Casanova? Speaking from a man’s point of view, we guys always thinks he is the greatest lover on earth. Let me correct that. I should say guys within the 18 till maybe 45 age group. Why did I correct meself?  Because i have out-lived that thought. Back to the question. I think I should make a call to all you horny guys out there to banish this stupid belief.

Don’t go imagining that the woman in front of you wants you as bad as you want her. Don’t start mumbling suggestive nonsense thinking that they will be aroused. They won’t! The most you will achieve is getting tagged as a dirty man with dirty thoughts. Get this fact embeded in that big fat skull of yours. You are not a sexual magnet. Woman don’t want to go to bed with you. 

If you want to live this fantascy about you being the most sex appealing guy, go to Thailand. The girls there are trained from young to treat and exploit this weakness in the man. You really start to belief that you are the most attractive guy on earth. Never mind the empty wallet when you get home. It will be money well spent. But when you are back, please re-tune your brain and don’t bring back those beliefs with you.  

Woman are genetically different. Their first thought when they see you is not images of wild frolicking. Though I don’t and will never know what goes through their minds when they sees you for the first time, sex is definitely not in their menu. Don’t trust all those sopa operas you see on TV. Normal woman don’t think like that, they are cold blooded creatures. Okay, okay, maybe after a few dates and a few shots of tequilas, they may change. But till then, don’t over tax your imagination.